Well,a few days ago,my mum told me that Ken is jobless for many months and it's really hard for him to find a good job in singapore.She suggested a few options
1st option is Ken and I go to America and stay and work there while my mum can help to look after Kazu in Singapore.
2nd option is Ken stays in America while me and kazu stay in singapore.He can visit us during his school holidays.
3rd option is we 3Ks go to USA and stay together for good.We will come back to singapore whenever we are free.
We have not decided which we will choose cuz'it's really tougher decision for us to make choice.Of course,1st option is out of question cuz' we won't get closer to him at all when he grows up.It will be terrible if he refuses to acknowledge us as his parents when realise that we are deaf parents to him.2nd option is possible but really hard to say cuz' we don't wish to carry another long distance relationship with kazu and husband and wife too,right?It will be waste of money to spend on airticket to fly often.We still consider it first.As for 3rd option,it will be great but we are worried about Kazu's feelings in USA and we are sure that he will miss his grandparents and many aunts and uncles in singapore.We won't know if we can have time to bring him to singapore in future.I know that especially my parents will miss him alot cuz' they take care of him so much.However,I know it's early to say but we better make plans for future.Anyway,we will ask God to answer which we will choose.I know that God will have plans for us to do cuz' He knows better than we do.Maybe we go to USA first till 6 months or 1 year later,then we bring Kazu back to USA finally.
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hmm...if i were u, i choose option 3! But kazu may not get used with the life in USA. He may be more lonely if no kids are around. In s'pore, he has alot of playmates. Why worry over kenichi being jobless. It's only few months, not 5 or 10 years, lor! Be patient till he has found a job here. Don't forget God is testing his patience to prove Him that he is able to stay permanently in foreign counrty after getting PR citizen successfully. He can treat it here as long holiday. Look at Saul or others being jobless more than one year, they managed to find good jobs! Maybe Kenichi can work as odd jobs first to get more experiences till find a stable job! My company got photograhy dept, maybe i will try to ask if any available vacancy for him. Or maybe he can join acting like ramesh or gophi?kekeke... cheer up and have faith in God, okie?
Maybe you don't believe after what I have said.We are afraid you would say those things but now you said because with our understanding you have no other choice.We are also in difficulty because we are going to miss you 3ks should you decide to move to USA.But still, we hope to see you staying permanently in Spore.
Maybe you need more patience to find one.Keep looking and never give up!We are behind you all the way.
After analysis, I think #3 is better for u all although #2 is more logical if u believe in distance again in husband and wife name...
#3 option is quite sad coz we will miss u dearly... DONT LEAVE US BUT LEAVE KAZU WITH US! :p
Cheeky Terence
Ah,Ken's jobless is not the only reason for leaving Singapore but he has to go back to his hometown where I have to follow him as my husband.Even he found a job here and may work for a few years.After a few years,we have to go back to USA eventually.He had made up his mind.wait and see cuz' we can't predict the future yet.Anyway,thanks for your advice and encouragement.We appreciate it.
Frankly speaking,i may be reluctant you to go, but frankly speaking, i encouraged you to consider going there :) For all the 3k's sake. Dont think present, think deeper into it! BUT, please pray first ok. Ask God to give you the signal to go or stay.
Why not you two go there first, settle down for 2-3 months, then bring little k over. Don't leave him here - parents love is very important for his growing up. Ken - Don't lose hope cos' we all knows God is doing something out there. Be patience, it's coming. God bless. Amen.
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