Thursday, July 27, 2006
What is a Christian Marriage?
To live happily with a man/woman you love for the rest of your lives.Can share everything we do,keep each other company.respect and commit each other. You think the certificate of marriage is a just piece of paper when getting married?No,it's not true but it's just like job contract or other policy which can't break vows easily.Whenever husband and wife have quarrels,they must always work out together why husband/wife are like that.God has plans for the couple to become a body only.They will not be allowed to separate easily.A marriage is total (100%) commitment of the total person for total life.It will be more difficult to cut a body into 2 parts like a pair of siamese people or red and blue colour mixed together to become purple,right?The purple colour can't separate but one colour is purple only.That same goes to the marriage.That's why we must view our marriage as happy and everlasting.We must not divorce easily as we wish when we can't get along well.Do not let us walk into the devil's trap.The devil always loves to make everything bad.Sex is also important to marriage because the marriage is supposed to be pleasure thus we need sex to please each other and draw us closer only.Besides,we need to be faithful to each other.So sex was not made for lusting and getting but was made for loving and giving.That's why sex is reserved only for marriage!Not that only pleasure but God has plans for us to have sex in order to make babies through marriage.Children are a gift from God.If we want to have baby,we have to wait for God to answer cuz' God has always plans for us to have a baby.God wants us to have a complete and happy family too.We must learn to forgive each other despite of what we did wrong or hurt each other.God always forgive us whenever we have our sins.As for financial,we must support and help each other,not be selfish to have own savings but must learn to trust and have faith in each other too.We must depend on God who will be there for us always.Just like husband and wife who should support each other always.As for me,I will try not to nag at my husband often cuz' he said that I am like his 2nd mother.Arghh...I told him to take action immediately otherwise I got worked and nag at him again.In the bible,I can't nag at him but leave it to God.He will change husband for the better thus I must continue to pray for my husband to remember what he ought to do.God always test on us how much we can put our faith in Him to help us.
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4 comments:
hey sis,
i'm sure God will bless u n ken since u hv so much faith in Him! :-)
luv,
jann
It's always good to share what your views are...
Do not worry. God is watching over us.
Just leave it to God.
Smiles.
In marriage, husband is the head of family, he should take all authority over the family matters. What is authority? Authority is not by instructing his wife to do all housework, cook,etc etc..Authority is,he must have leadership,he must be able to lead the family and wife too. As a wife, we are the helper towards our husband, meaning? Husband,if you know your weak point example: you dont know how to control your money, and if your wife is good in controlling and manage money, you should let your wife manage it for the family. Or wife if you cant cook a good dishes, but yet husband able to cook, you should learn from him and make it a joyful cooking session. As husband and wife, compromising, love, share and care. Communication very important too. Not forget, we mustn't forget our own parents and in law too. What is family love? Is to extend your care towards other relative, love them as yours too! Man and Women are differents. Women tend to prolong the story abit, well man usually want to hear the direct point. AND as husband and wife, should not compare others wife or husband, focus and must always tell yourself, my wife or husband is the best in my life. Let God be the head of family, this is a christian family basic thing.
yup, the bible says a man will leave his parents and united to his wife and become one flesh. Wife's desire will be for husband, he will rule over wife. And the moral words is man will never success in his life without wife's support. That's why u have always be there for your husband and grow to have a strong bond family.
it's wonderful to share your points with us especially married ones! May God bless u 3Ks!
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