Monday, April 17, 2006
Bid Farewell
Well,who else than my hubby,Kenichi?Yup,he has to go back to USA on 17th May,wednesday offically.Because he is not happy with his current job which can't support family expense and his debt enough.Even he was offered permanent job and his pay would be increased but he still rejected the offer.Cuz' he has no confidence in his boss and he knew that his boss might not want him one day,thus he would waste his time staying here.Not that only reason but he needs to settle his college loan first and his pay in USA will be better and he will be able to clear his debt faster.Of course we all prefer Kazu to grow up in Singapore,therefore Kazu and I might stay in Singapore first.Some of my family members suggest that we can follow Kenichi and stay in USA for 2 years at least.When it's time for Kazu to go to school,then we can go back to Singapore.But we can't predict our future cuz' after living in USA,then it will be worst for us to be jobless if we want to come back to Singapore to live again.It would be safer to have a job in Singapore at least if we really want Kazu to study in Singapore.Or I have to take risk to lose job and then live with them together.Hope that we can find a job back when come back to Singapore but it's really big risk.I suggested giving my savings to clear his debt but he declined it cuz' he rather be responsible for his college loan alone.I ought to save them for rainy day and new flat later.We will apply my green card soon.Once it is approved,then we will know later.It's really hard for us to part.I believe that we would have a hard time to part once we would be at airport.sigh...Perhaps,it's God's plan for us best and we have to follow.We trust and have faith in God.
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Really? Why kenichi doesn't have confidence in boss since he was offered a permanent job and increament? Like us,we still survive on our pay,so why won't kenichi too?
Take a step at one time slowly and I am sure all you are back together again whether in USA or Spore.
We are beside you two all the way and don't lose hope too soon.Have faith in yourselves that you two can do fine despite many difficulties.Don't think so much about money issues and think of important things like a family unity,kazu's welfare,etc..
Anyway I am sure there is always a way for you. So be confident,Karen and Kenichi !!
- joysurf
Karen,
When you and Kenichi got married,i thought you both knew about the cons of an inter-racial marriage.
But I am sure that God has plans for you and Kenichi. Just leave your problems to God and He will take care of these for you. But please do remember to pray constantly. Prayer is like building a relationship with God (talking to Him). More important.
I will pray for you too.
God Bless you, Kenichi and Kazu.
I agree with Greenie,
let's wait & see what's the best to take the next step once you got your green card,only then the 3K family will be together once again if you can find a job in USA.Hope the good news will be out sooner!
May God be with you all the way.
-joysurf
Me very shocked to hear it.Sigh.Agree with Greenie and Joysurf./dk
Karen, is ok :) You are right to do thing step by step. Right now, let Ken settle down in USA first, get everything done then, consider to move over. Things cant predict at all, so let's pray for Ken to be able to settle down well and hear that God say ok :) You have your friend here to support you. And dont forget, i will be there if you need my help ok :)
as a pillar of support, i am very sure 3k of u will be together in 2 years time. u already overcame your obstacle in long distance relationship and it will not be a big problem for u. i believe kenchi will find his job in florida and gradually clear his debt. meanwhile dont worry as kenchi got me although we live far :)
karen, i know u r always strong so raise kazu well and teach him to be smarter and enrol him into top boy's school ACS Primary (my dream!)
terence
ah, kenichi should have more confidence in God, not his boss so that he won't worry about his job here! But i understand he is too anxious to clear up his studies debt quickly. If u want to cut down 2 years of his staying in USA, why don't u split half or 3/4 of your savings to pay to reduce his debts and the rest of your savings can be kept for your future necessary like new flat and kazu's education so that Kenichi won't feel so bad. how true it's not easy for u to find a job again when u return from USA after 2 years! But anyway, just leave to God who already has a plan ahead for u 3Ks. Most important thing is u must be positive for your future and have more faith in God! May God bless u 3ks with stronger family bond!
oh one more thing to add...i don't want to follow u all to see him off at airport cos i can't control my tears when i see u two hugging tightly and crying! so pai seh! haa...
hi.moses i shock.i know he work in short month.i understand and kenichi go usa for work.in usa is high salay then little salary singapore.hope he work job good.when he go back to singapore?ok.take care.pls inform kenichi.
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